Sometimes, you can get so immersed in the struggle of something that you lose sight of the big picture and resolution can seem so far out of reach. It also seems that nothing brings out those feelings quite like divorce.

A divorced couple came to me for coaching. They had been in and out of court for the past 7 years and were completely unable to talk to each other without ending up in court to settle their differences. As anyone who has been to court knows, it is stressful for everyone. It is also costly, time consuming, and although some disputes can be resolved, it rarely, if ever, solves the underlying issues holding parents back from Co-Parenting in harmony and creating a peaceful, supportive environment for themselves and their children.

After 7 years of court battles, these parents took my 6-week course with me via Skype. Over the 6 weeks, I guided them to shift their mindsets, develop new communication strategies, strengthen their focus on their child’s well-being, and to build on their shared love for their child and ultimate goal of creating Co-Parenting in Harmony, for the benefit of everyone in the mix.

The result? They not only met their goals in record breaking time. They surpassed it! Huge kudos to these incredible Co-Parents.

It is clients and families like them that make what I do worthwhile, and continually reaffirm my belief that even the most “impossible situation” is never impossible. Co-Parenting in Harmony is possible. I have lived it myself and brought into being with the clients and families I work with every day. It was such an honour to help these divorced parents transition to become skillful Co-Parents, and I know the work they have put in will create ripple effects for their whole family, today and in the future.

Co-Parenting in Harmony begins with accepting everyone as they are, and the situation as it is. From that acceptance, you can begin to create the harmony you all deserve.

The greatest life gift you can give your child, and yourself, is to persist in achieving outstanding outcomes in your Co-parenting in Harmony relationship. As Khalil Gibran wrote, “You are the bows from which your children, as living arrows, are sent forth.”

The divorced couple had finally both set their sights high and made every effort to achieve their Co-Parenting goals. Life is about living happily, not courts, lawyers and chaos. It doesn’t have to be that way.

I know you have it within you to make a shift in mindset that Co-parenting in Harmony is possible.

Adopting a new mindset of teamwork above all else, to work together towards the common goal – your child’s wellbeing – is key. Continue to focus on the love you share for your child, and on your goal of continuing to be amazing Co-parents. You are your child’s best role models.

The genuine verbal testimonial I received from both parents was truly heartwarming and reaffirming. As they mentioned, what I was able to help them achieve in 6 weeks, no courts and no coaches and no mediators over the previous 7 years had been able to help them with.

If you think it’s impossible for you, think again. Let me guide you on the path to Co-parenting in Harmony and witness for yourself the outstanding outcomes.

Get the accountability and encouragement you need for your Co-parenting in Harmony success.

My 6-week program will provide you the accountability and encouragement necessary to ensure your long term success. I guide you and help you release your emotional reactions to work on the rational level.

It’s not about right or wrong, better or worse, it’s a matter of what works in your family, at this time, under your unique circumstances.

Beleive Co-parenting in Harmony is possible.